Justin’s Blog: “The Jog”
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Avoiding The Issue
When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways” (1 Corinthians 13:11, The Bible, ESV). M. Scott Peck, in his work The Road Less Traveled, explained with surgeon-like precision how people deal with problems and pain. […]
Read More >Stages of Change
Why won’t they change??!! True, long-lasting change is based on a re-orientation of a person’s heart attitude and approach. This can’t be forced. Few people like to change under compulsion. I actually haven’t met one. People that are so passive that they let others force transformation usually hold onto their beliefs internally, ending up with resentments, bitterness, […]
Read More >In Pursuit of a Better Mood: When Psychology Misses the Point
Are you “addicted” to having a good mood? The all-out fascination with having a good mood might be distracting you from living meaningfully. What is your highest priority? Relationships? Money? Status? Fun? God? Adventure? Let’s get honest- if pushed and prodded, what is your greatest care? What do you spend the most time thinking about? […]
Read More >Attracting Bad Relationships: How You Become A Jerk-Magnet
How did this happen again? Do I have a sign on my face that says, ‘Take advantage of me’? A common counseling topic is addressing habitual and self-destructive patterns in relationships. For the person that keeps getting stuck and attracting the same jerk over and over again, I have good news: there are clear, identifiable […]
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